Monday, April 30, 2007
Friday, April 27, 2007
Gone Fishin'...
on my mind today as I continue to celebrate the great teamwork displayed by the young adult ministry I serve as they led a fantastic example of creative worship last Sunday. Using the story of the resurrected Christ having breakfast on the beach with the disciples, the young adults designed an outdoor service that simulated having a meal on the beach. Worshippers sat on the ground in a large circle on blankets, with a sandbox in the center where the children were invited to play throughout the service. Guitar music carried on the theme of fishing and water, as did collecting the offering in giant sea shells. The message was focused on ways in which we encounter Christ in our daily lives and worshippers were invited to dialogue with each other and the speaker throughout the message. Finally, communion was an actual meal, shared together as we enjoyed the fresh air, sound of birds, smell of grass, and the blessings of community. Ned Flanders, creationist.
I went to see an excellent production of "Inherit the Wind" last night, featuring a student from my youth group. Amazing that we are still debating this issue even today.
Small Front door....Big Back Door

Practice What You Preach...
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Empty Bowls Project
awareness and funds for the problem of hunger:In 1990 a high school art teacher in Michigan helped his students solve a problem. They were searching for a way to raise funds to support a food drive. What evolved was a class project to make ceramic bowls for a fund raising meal. Guests were served a simple meal of soup and bread, and were invited to keep the bowl as a reminder of hunger in the world. By the following year the originators had developed this concept into Empty Bowls, a project to provide support for food banks, soup kitchens, and other organizations that fight hunger.
Need Ideas? Who Doesn't!
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Say Cheese!
photo you might have on your computer. Some options include making fake magazine covers, CD covers, trading cards, mosaics and photo cubes. My favorite is a tool that turns your selected image into a movie poster. Lots of possibilities here for using photos from your youth ministry for promotional items or cool gifts!
(*Click on photo to see larger version of image.)
Cool Idea: Who Am I?
sheet of paper handout for your youth that reads "WHO AM I?" at the top. Down the left hand side of the sheet, print the words "I am" 6 or 7 times, followed by blank lines so that students can fill in the rest of the phrase.I am____________________.I am____________________.I am____________________.
Invite youth to take a few minutes to fill in the blanks with words or phrases that describe themselves. The repetition in this activity helps youth to move beyond the superficial and dig a little deeper for ways to describe who they are. The more lines they have to fill in, the deeper they will have to go to come up with something to write. When everyone is finished, invite students to read all or part of what they have written. Even for those who do not want to share outloud, this can be a valuable activity in self-awareness.
Time Travel: A Youth Minister Rants

Friday, April 20, 2007
Tribute to Kurt Vonnegut (1933-2007)
A tribute to the late, great Kurt Vonnegut who recently passed away. Inspired by a passage from Vonnegut's classic book Slaughterhouse Five in which the character Billy Pilgrim describes how beautiful a war in reverse would be.(If more young people read Vonnegut's books, the world would be a better place! -- Brian)
"People don't come to church for preachments, of course, but to daydream about God."
Kurt Vonnegut
This will preach...

Thursday, April 19, 2007
Virginia Tech and Your Youth
the deaths this week at the Virginia Tech campus, Disciples of Christ pastor Randy Kuss has made available a (pdf) resource he initially developed to help students cope with the Columbine shootings and he has now adapted it for use to deal with the recent events. Entitled "Steps Toward a Process of Living After the Gunfire," Randy's discussion guide provides a sensitive way of helping youth struggle with their questions and concerns. - As you think about the Virginia Tech shootings (and similar incidents?) what do you learn about people?
- What songs (or movies?) come to mind as you think about the Virginia Tech shootings? What do you hear from them?
- What phrases or stories from the Bible come to mind? What do you hear from them?
- What would you like to say to or do with or for the victims of the Virginia Tech shootings?
Related resources can be found here at the STEP (Student Ecumenical Partnership National Network) website.
(Randy Kuss was the national youth ministry leader for the Disciples of Christ from 1995-2003. He is currently Director of Christian education and Youth Ministry at Speedway Christian Church in Indianapolis as well as leader of God @ Center youth leader retreats, based in part on his work with the Youth Ministry and Spirituality Project.)
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
Counting Youth...
Virgina Tech: Where was God?
their youth group activities. Inevitably such incidents challenge our understanding of how God works in the world. The same sort of questions came up following the 9-11 attacks. Those who held a fairly orthodox view of an interventionist theistic God were bombarded with questions: Where was God when the terrorists took over those planes, when they flew them into the towers. Where was God when the buildings caught fire and collapsed, killing those inside? Others, who held a more "God is the ground of all being" view also had to struggle to explain how such a God could be relevant in the face of overwhelming death and destruction. Then there were those willing to accept the questions and not offer quick answers --those willing to live with the mystery. Mike Yanconelli, responding to the question "Please tell me why God allowed over 6000 innocent people to be murdered on September 11, 2001?" wrote a Youth Worker column that made room for the mystery. The column has been turned into a reader's theater that might provide a thoughtful way to approach a conversation about Virgina Tech with your youth. God's Gift of Sexuality
Last weekend, coincidently, we had our seventh grade sexuality retreat. The retreat started at 5:00 Saturday evening and concluded with a brief worship Sunday morning. After eating pizza and doing a few silly skits, we rotated the youth through three individual sessions: 1) God’s gift of sexuality; 2) Images of sexuality; and 3) Good touch, bad touch, and confusing touch. Overall, I thought the retreat went very well. At the worship on Sunday morning parents were invited to attend. I shared with the parents that at the retreat, at least in the beginning, there is always some awkwardness when discussing sexuality. But, I can think of no safer place to have a conversation about sexuality than at the church. As a youth minister, I hope my youth feel comfortable discussing with me, and other adult volunteers, issues involving sexuality. I think avoiding the topic of sexuality would be a serious mistake.
This summer, our camp program is offering, for the first time, an Eighter’s camp that is focused on sexuality. The description for this camp says: Eighter’s is a unique camp just for youth entering 9th grade in the fall which provides youth with factual and spiritual understanding of God’s gift of sexuality. Morning keynotes focus on the humanity of Jesus, God’s love, forgiveness, and plans for camper’s lives. Workshops on anatomy, puberty, abstinence, dating, STIs/AIDS, conception, and contraception are presented in the evening. Small group sessions daily provide a place for related activities and fellowship. Worship wraps up each day. Campers also enjoy swimming, crafts, games, music, team challenges, and campfire.
Has anyone done anything similar?
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
News Flash: Teens Still Having Sex
A long-awaited national study has concluded that abstinence-only sex education, a cornerstone of the Bush administration's social agenda, does not keep teenagers from having sex. Neither does it increase or decrease the likelihood that if they do have sex, they will use a condom.
How else might we have spent the $176 million/year that this program cost? Actually, I'm not surprised by these findings. My bet would be on parents, peers, and church as the greatest influencers of sexual behavior (or the lack thereof) of teens -- not schools and government programs. Just last night, the topic of sex came up with the older students at youth group. One of the guys said "This whole topic is really confusing. It's hard to know what to think when it comes to sex and our religion." He's right. It's hard to look to bibical texts, particularly the gospels, and find much of anything relevant to say to youth about sexual behavior, particularly when we go out of our way to make Jesus into a celibate do-gooder who apparently never had a sexual thought in his whole 30+ years. And don't even get me started on the sexual ethics of the Hebrew scriptures! So, what's a good youth minister to do? Monday, April 16, 2007
Photo of the Day: Careful Christian
Lots of ways you could read this. I think it would be interesting to show this to youth and get their responses.
Friday, April 13, 2007
Cool Idea: Prayer of St. Brendan
responsive reading would be a great resource if you commission your youth group in worship before taking off on your summer mission trip. The youth could lead the piece, with the congregation providing the response:As I go I will not refuse any destination, for:
As I go I will embrace all that crosses my way, for:
Thursday, April 12, 2007
Getting Caught...

--Brian
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Christian Clowning: Be Afraid! Be Very Afraid
Years ago, when I was beginning my first youth ministry position, the church suggested I consider starting a clown ministry with the teens. What they didn't know then, but would eventually come to discover: I hate clowns with a passion. What's more, I've yet to find a single person who really loves clowns. Don't miss the point at about 2 minutes into the video where a group of clowns freak out an elderly man!
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
They Won't Bite....Most Likely!
model of youth ministry that places teens in the care of youth ministers and adult volunteers virtually guarantees that most other adults in the church will abdicate any responsibility for the spiritual life of those youth. The assumption is that the youth minister or the adult leaders are taking care of it. I hope to remind our elders tonight that, particularly once youth are baptized, they fall under the care of the whole congregation. For a gentle nudge in the right direction, I will share with our elders the following ideas for making connections with our teens:- Engage youth informally at church. Though they may be shy or not know quite how to react, youth appreciate being approached informally on Sunday mornings, called by name, and asked about how things are going in their lives. This sort of outreach goes a long way to help young people see themselves as full participants in the life of the community.
- Write to youth. Young people love to get mail, particularly personal notes that are written for no other reason than to just to let them know you are thinking about them and praying for them. If you are particularly computer savvy, try email, myspace, or Facebook.
- Ask youth their thoughts and opinions. Who knows what wonderful results might come from occasionally inviting a group of young people to sit with you and simply reflect on the current state of the church, the church’s mission, and how they see their role in that mission. Teenagers can bring a unique perspective that can enable us to see the Church in new and useful ways.
- Invite youth to use their talents/gifts in leadership of the church. Young people are gifted in a multitude of ways to provide leadership in all areas of the church, but more often than not they need to be asked and invited before they will step forward.
- Engage the youth on their own turf. Simply put, rather than expecting them to come to you, go to them! Take time to visit a youth Christian education class or evening youth meeting. Visit youth and their families in their homes with no other agenda than to get to know them better.
--Brian
Favorite Youth Ministry Resource Sites




--Brian
Breaking Down Barriers
Breaking from tradition, high school students in this small town are getting together for this year's prom. Prom night at Turner County High has long been an evening of de facto segregation: white students organized their own unofficial prom, while black students did the same.This year's group of seniors didn't want that legacy. When the four senior class officers two whites and two blacks met with Principal Chad Stone at the start of the school year, they had more on their minds than changes to the school's dress code. They wanted a school-sponsored prom. They wanted everyone invited. On April 21, they'll have their wish. The town's auditorium will be transformed into a tropical scene, and for the first time, every junior and senior, regardless of race, will be invited to an official prom.
See full article here.
Easter Sunrise Service
Last Sunday morning, forty of our youth met at 5:30 in the morning to participate in an Easter sunrise service. We traveled to a local state park where we took a short hike to a bluff that overlooked a creek and thousands of trees. As we watched the sunrise, and listened to the birds and water, we reflected on the resurrection of Christ and what the Easter message means to us today.I briefly shared with the youth my understanding of Christ’s resurrection. I have found that it is almost impossible to prove the resurrection. For every argument in support of the resurrection, there is an equally compelling counter-argument. But, I believe that the message of the resurrection, even to the point of death, is that Christ is not separated from us. When Christ calls Mary by name, Mary encounters Christ. And just as Mary encountered Christ that day outside the tomb, we too encounter Christ daily—new life begins with us.
I asked the youth to share, if they were comfortable, some of the experiences they have had in encounters with Christ. Answers included: mission trips, church camps, random acts of kindness by complete strangers, retreats, worship, and even silence. As we shared our stories, and listened to one another, I truly believe that I saw the presence of Christ in each individual present that morning.
After the service, we returned to church for a great breakfast of cinnamon rolls, bacon, and eggs. As we sat down to eat, I was reminded once again that a defining act of Jesus’ ministry was table fellowship.
--Jacob
Friday, April 06, 2007
Chocolate Jesus: Revisited
Cool Idea: Water Prayers
pitcher of water and a bowl in the center of the group. Invite youth to share their prayer concerns either out loud or in silence. After each person prays, they are to take the pitcher and pour a small amount of water into the bowl. The youth watch as the bowl fills with the prayers of the group. Conclude by sharing thoughts on the importance of pouring out our prayers in community, so that all our joys and concerns become as one in God. You might also talk about how our prayers mingle with the prayers all people in the world --even those we will never meet. Thursday, April 05, 2007
The Politics of Paul

For awhile, everything was going well. The youth were really digging the notion that we’re accepted by grace and faith, not solely works righteousness. They also enjoyed the conversation that dealt with sin and the concept of original sin. We had a great debate over nature versus nurture.
Then, we came to Romans 13: Let every person be subject to the governing authorities; for there is no authority except from God, and those authorities that exist have been instituted by God. One individual asked: What’s going on here, this doesn’t look like Paul at all?” Someone else suggested that maybe we should just ignore this chapter of Romans.
The more I thought about it, and the more we talked, I really I wasn’t at all sure how to interpret Romans 13. This morning, I think Romans 13 may be seen as 1) a general statement about ruling authorities and the idea that God is the head of order; 2) for some reason, Paul may have respected the Roman government or perhaps the Roman government offered some sort of protection from persecution (though I think this is unlikely); and 3) perhaps Paul wrote this when Nero was in charge of the empire (54-68 CE) and believed that Nero offered some benefits to the early Jewish and Christian community.
Ultimately, I’m still not sure. I hesitate to think that ruling authorities are ordained by God. But, I am sure that posing such questions is one of the reasons I enjoy working with youth. They are unafraid to share their thoughts and questions.
Wednesday, April 04, 2007
Chocolate Jesus
amazes me about all this is that those protesting the art refer to it as "hate speech" even though the artist himself is a Christian. Their biggest complaints seem to focus in on the fact that the sculpture is made of chocolate and that it depicts Jesus as nude. I suppose there will always be religious folks who cringe any time Jesus is depicted as a little too "human." Historically, of course, people were always crucified naked. It was meant to be the ultimate form of humiliation and degradation. The fact that we always cover Jesus with a little loincloth says a lot about our discomfort with Jesus' human body (not to mention our own). Even Mel Gibson, in all his "pains" to show the suffering of Jesus on the cross in "The Passion", wasn't willing to go all the way. Even Gibson sanitized the crucifixion.Might the protesters also be bothered because the artist's choice of chocolate gives this Jesus dark skin? Cosimo Cavallaro, the sculptor, has explained that he wanted to create a work that gave Jesus a flavor. He chose chocolate because "it's sweet." Ironically, at a time of the year when the passion is trivialized by chocolate eggs, chicks, and crosses, we don't seem to be able to stomach a chocolate Jesus.
Seeking Silence

So, I was a little concerned that my topic of the night dealt with silence and ways in which we can listen for the voice of God. The youth that I work with are constantly surrounded by noise: i-pods, cell phones, televisions, stereos, and x-boxes. When there is an absence of noise, they start to become uncomfortable.
Nonetheless, after spending some time just hanging out and playing games, we watched a NOOMA video by Rob Bell entitled, “Noise.” In this short clip, Rob Bell suggests that there is a connection between the amount of noise in our lives and our inability to listen to God. He also asks if, when we have a problem (which we all do daily), we spend as much time listening to God as we do talking about the problem with others.
Once the video was over, I asked the youth to spend three minutes with me in complete silence. This wasn’t a problem for either the younger or older youth.
As we sat on the floor of the youth center, which is the original sanctuary, and listened to the walls creak and the air conditioner hum (yes, it was warm on Sunday), I gave thanks to God that I am surrounded by youth who, at least when asked, our comfortable shutting down the noise in their life and seeking out, in silence, a relationship with Christ.





